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Daughter embraces mother after decades of wondering and longing

Woman Reunited With Thai Mother

Saturday, November 22, 2014
PHUKET: A woman with links to Australia and Britain has been reunited with her Thai mother in an embrace that ended decades of separation and longing.

Last century north of Phuket, an Australian tin mine manager romanced his Thai maid, who gave birth to a daughter.

But the manager had a wife back home and when the time came to leave, he asked a British mate to take care of his then six-month-old offspring.

The British friend adopted the child who grew up without knowing her natural mother.

A hug in Phuket yesterday ended years of longing for Kimberley Ferreira, 54, as she embraced her mother, Yoklean Jankeaw, 79.

With Mrs Ferreira was her husband, Carlos. The pair had been searching for Khun Yoklean on the basis of slim documentation that led them to confuse the island of Phangan with the mainland Thai province of Phang Nga.

''I have been thinking about you all the time,'' were the first words Khun Yoklean said when the pair finally met on Phuket, where the tin mine manager bought her three plots of land, decades ago.

It's expected mother and daughter have a lot to talk about in coming days and months, catching up on everything that's happened to them both since 1960. .

Raised as British, Kimberley only discovered her exotic past 30 years ago when her mother lay dying and told her she had been adopted.

Later Kimberley discovered that her natural father, the Australian tin mine manager, had died in 1999. Her British father died in 2005.

Khun Yoklean later married and had three other children.

''I remember the Australian man as 'Mr Person,''' Khun Yoklean told Phuketwan today. ''I worked as a maid at the time, and was paid 2000 baht a month.

''In that time, the manager's house in Takuapa [a town in Phang Nga, north of Phuket] was a small bungalow. His wife went back to Australia for five or six months every year.

''I found myself pregnant and everybody in the village knew who was the father. Six months after I gave birth at the clinic, Mr Person talked to me.

''He said 'Look I have a good friend, he is a British engineer with a Malaysian wife. They want children and can't have them. Maybe we should adopt our child out and give her a bright future.'

''I thought about it and had to make sure. I was prepared to raise the child myself. Then the Malaysian woman came to visit and she told me how much she wanted a daughter.

''She promised to take good care of the child. She asked me if i needed money, but i said it had nothing to do with money.

''I wanted my daughter to have a good future. So I said goodbye. The couple moved to Kuala Lumpur and that was the last I heard.''

Eventually, Kimberley's adoptive parents moved back to Britain and then also to the US.

''I didn't tell anyone, only my first son, who was three years old at the time. He wondered where his sister had gone. Later I had two daughters.

''One of them is now nursing in Australia and has an Australian husband,'' Khun Yoklean said. ''My other daughter is working in the US as a nanny.

''I live in Phuket with my oldest son.'

Kimberely has been in Thailand, looknig for her mother, since September. ''I misunderstood, thinking that Phangan and Phang Nga were the same place.

''I was upset when I realised that I was in the wrong area - I almost lost hope,'' she said. ''I am so glad now I didn't give up.''

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B2000 a month 53 years ago - that's one heck of a wage for back then.

Posted by Mister Ree on November 22, 2014 10:48

Editor Comment:

Indeed. 2000 baht a year sounds more like it.

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Great story - thank you Phuketwan!

Posted by Brad kenny on November 23, 2014 09:07

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Incredible story and well written, thanks.

Posted by It's too late on November 23, 2014 13:20

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Good story but I wonder how they managed to get the paperwork done and being honest to get Ferreira a British Passport. I am a firm believer that unless there is a huge reason all children should stay with their biological mother and ideally the father too, even here we can see the heartache it has caused for both people for so many years. In fact Thailand has recently tightened laws in regards to surrogacy a similar area of life.

Posted by Feisty Farang on November 23, 2014 15:01

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Fifty years ago, there were fewer barriers. Bureaucrats still had hearts.

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I am one of that woman's daughters. I live in Australia. I'm so happy for her. I never know I have a half sister, a welcome addition to our family.

Posted by judy on November 23, 2014 16:35

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We're so happy for you all, judy. It is amazing how life turns out.

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My mother is very wise, kind and humble lady. She speaks quite good English and chinese. She came out from Phuket to stay with us in Australia a lot in the past but it has stop now due to her health. I read from your article and there is few things wrong in that content. My mother first married she got one son. Then she had Kim as we knew from what mum told. Later she married to my dad and had 4 kids. I'm the oldest, married an Aussie I am working as a Clinical nurse in Aged care. My younger married an American guy and she lives in Texas, she is not a nanny in USA. My other sister and brother both still live in Thailand. My brother is an architect in Phuket and my sister runs the business for western company.
Regards,

Judy (Nuanchan) Lloyd

Posted by Judy Lloyd on November 23, 2014 17:01


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